Hola..its been a while since i've been blogging..hahaha..kinda malas kinda love to write..lol..ya know love hate kinda thing..ahahaha..ok so its been 2017 and already June..haaa punya lama tak update blog tuuhh..hahaha..so entry kali ni rasa mcm nak cakap pasal relationship..haaa i know aku ni tak layak actually talks about this thing but i just wanna say apa yang aku nmpak and observe pasal relationship..
Okay,so relationship is actually one of the big decision yg kita akan buat..bagi aku lah..bertukar pasangan is really not my thing esp bila umur kau meningkat..So guys and girls please masa decide tu make sure u have to know utk apa u nak dia,,if you nk dia sbb rupa semata(i know dari mata turun kehati tapi takkan lah lepas dah kenal hati budi pun kau nak sebab rupa kan?tak ke cipan perangai camtu?) or even sbb kau rasa thrill nk try dia,test market lah(ni paling celaka.,kau ingt hati ni mcm hati ayam ke ?kau kemain try dah dpt kau tetiba bosan nk try yg lain..dasar kepala lutut betul)..stop it..serious talk..those should come second sbb once u truly love them kau akan accept them as they are..again im in no position to said this tapi its from my point of view only.. so no butthurt okayy..hahaha..
Relationship is scary because once you really love them u dont have the guts to said no,everything is about them,suddenly u wanna be the best chef,the perfect wife material,so vulnerable so easy to be manipulate..thts how scary tht thing work..so wht u have to do is both partner should really understand each other,have a good communication is the key..make sure kau selesa utk talk about everything..tapi tapi tapi kalau ade certain perkara yg perlu timing and cara btau yg betul kene ikut lah,jangan main bedal je sbb partner ni kompom extra sensitif,she/him might said its ok,tapi deep down she/him are not..so tu hati2 yer..Trust them..kalau dia cakap gi kuar makan,then trust him/her..Nothing good ever come in jealousy.
Next being in a relationship time is everything..make time for each other..since relationship is a commitment..commit lah..spend time together,even makan ke apa je..jgn buat relationship on virtual only..sbb tht feeling is lain bila jumpa and bila u guys texting..make it a matured relationship where u start thinking pasal future..bukan sekadar nak berpasangan sbb reason2 yg aku state awal2 tadi..Aside tht pls hormat each other,know tht u shouldnt control each other life..let she/him enjoys going out wt geng dorg..again tapi tapi tapi,jangan lah sampai lupa partner korg..
Okay this one usually lelaki yg buat..sorry to say dari apa yg aku nmpak lelaki (aku tahu tak semua,jgn emosi dulu kayh) mmg sejenis belum dapat suma pun okay,bila dah dapat start takes for granted..Masa korg beria nk try dia start dr day 1 cuba pikir apa yg korg sanggup buat..Text her,call her,segala apa yg dia post kat socmed semua korg tahu,hormat kerjaya n cita2 partner,buat baik ngn family dia..laa ni bila da dpt korg sekat everything..guna alasan "syurga bawah tapak kaki suami,nak jatuh talak?nak nusyuz?"..well hello sebelum hangpa mai dlm hidup dia..Family dia tau yg support yg jaga bagai nk rak..so pikiaq dulu naa sebelum nk buat perangai..Gain respect from her bukan buat dia stress hidup dlm ketakutan..
Last but not least kes ex dtg meraih kasih cinta nan abadi ni..adoi,dik non please lah dik oi..grow up,whatever happen between u gais aldy jd kenangan..tak perlu nak tanya kabar,nak buat baik ke apa because bite me there is no such thing as kwn ngn ex...no need weh..buang masa dan tenaga je,bcos its either both ended up together again or one of them hurting..so no need..buat clear cut setel..also sejenis pasangan yg cepat bosan or pasang 2 ni..pun sama apakejadahbya?tak kisah lah lelaki or perempuan pls lah..kalau kau rasa bosan ngn partner kau,cari mana silap baiki together bukan tinggal bodoh gitu..wht the hell yg korg nak ni?nak yg satu tapi side punya lah banyak,lol sgt..Personally ak mmg tak paham mcm mana ade org boleh syg cinta blah blah ngn ramai org,korg tak rimas ke?i mean ade satu nk melayan pun penat kan?ni lagi korg layan bnyak2..utk org2 mcm ni satu je aku pesan bende yg korg buat ni ade balasan nnti..korg nak one day kau nmpak anak2 kau kene main?sama mcm kau buat kat org lain..haaa masa tu baru sedar betapa sakitnya benda tu bila org yg kau syg terpaksa lalui semua pengalaman tu..serious..
ok ni kiranya apa yg aku observe lah dlm relationship..I know aku mentah gila nk ckp relationship ni sbb even me myself have a failed relationship but somehow this mcm reminder utk aku jugak..haaa before aku lupa,girls always always always do this which is cepat rasa bahagia and that is not good..once kawan aku pesan dlm bercinta ni bagi 70% je hati kau kat dia..lagi 30% simpan utk diri sendiri(by mean this bukan aku suruh kau menggatal dengan jantan lain yeee..maksud aku ot kene tinggal nnti takdelah separuh mati kau sakit..haaa..gittuew)..seriously girls do this!!sbb nya sorry again to say(tak semua mcm ni ye) most guys mmg takguna n kita kene cari yg kurang sikit level tak guna dia tu...i mean nobody perfect right?so dapat yang reti faham n hargai kau dah cukup baik..so prepare for the impact girls,dont give like 90% pun dekat dia..always kept some to yourself..so sekian tu je ceq membebel..hehehe..adios anddd selamat hari raya gais!!..muah muah..hiksss
